When night falls....

Human's relation is a irony.

The stronger the bonding, the more fragile it gets.
Not in a way whereby two will easily fall out with each other over trival things.
But that there will seems to have more trivial things arising as it gets stronger.

Factor contributing, in hand with expectations.
It just cross my mind that perhaps, Selfishness also plays a part as well.
They expect more from others, because they put themselves in front of he/she.

"How could you do this to me?"

"I treated you so well, yet you do this back to ME"

"You should understand ME more then anyone else"

To put it bluntly, you are just beating around the bush to tell that best friend of yours, " Hey, i am more important then you."

It's just another form of self-centerness.

But of course, i am not defending any side here.
When such thing happens, both is at fault.

For the first party,
You should understand that mutual trust important when it comes to building up relationships.
Because, if you trust the person, you should know that he/she will never do it.
Otherwise, if you don't, why did you call he/she your friend?.
And if you cannot even trust or try and understand he/she, what makes you think that you can do something even more?

And as for the second party.
Why do you think the first party will misunderstand you.
Was it your response?
Or is it that the friendship isn't vise-versa?
And if you really did something wrong
Where were you coming out from? is it against your concious?

Ultimately.
One should understand that, you have to furfill your obligation before you start saying you cherish or love someone.
And when the obligation turns free-will
You truely achieve that.

True friends are hard to come.

I shouldnt be so selfish.
And start being self-less.

It's such a contradiction.


People who are self-fish by nature, will find what i have said, TOTALLY invalid.
I used "totally" because you may still find them invalid, because thats what i think.
And no, if you think so, you are certainly not those people that i am referring to.